Is it normal for a Mom to feel like she is in a state of confusion most of the time?  Some days my kids treat me like a queen, then other days a doormat.  Some days I feel like I can't give them enough and other days I feel like I give them too much.  One day I feel like I need to control everything and others I feel like it is time to start giving them some control.  I hope I am not the only Mom in the world that feels this way.